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    By Atiya
    The science of making begins with loving communication. I say science rather art because unlike art which is concerned more with the aesthetic criteria, science deals with a body of facts or truths that is demonstrated and proven through general laws.
    Anyone can have sex, but when we talk about making or having a making experience, it’s a different conversation all together. Lovemaking is another level of intimacy that that has very little to do with sex, but rather a manner of interacting with your partner. One of the things I always say to couples is, “it’s not just about making to the body, but also about learning to make to your mate’s mind.” Often the best foreplay starts outside of the bedroom, and if your game isn’t on point outside of the sheets, then ultimately the game you are playing between them lasts only a fleeting moment.

    Good sex may give you an amazing feeling for the moment, but authentic making hits the most erogenous zones every time, and is the secret that creates a lasting experience. An effective r knows how to woo the human mind with a word. That’s when you got skills! Both men and women have had multiple orgasms and were not even touched “physically” during the experience. A good making session is rooted in loving communication. Never underestimate the power of a good word and a good ear! Those of you, who have experienced it, know exactly what I am talking about. This is the same process of how a person can sing and shatter a glass.The vibratory force of loving communication is way more effective than a quick roll in the hay. Further, it is the “juice” that gives sex the ultimate impact. Loving communication with your mate is about joyfully delighting in sharing with them. A couple who has learned to lovingly communicate with one another has learned to look to one another as a source of their happiness, pleasure and delight, and they unite and exchange willingly and find joy in doing so. At that point, when the couple actually gets down to the business of physically pleasing one another, they are already “hot’ because they both have sent good beforehand.If you want to spice up your -life or enhance the experience of your physical connection, start out by regularly practicing the following:1. Listen to what your mate has to say. It communicates and demonstrates that you value them and what they have to say. Sex is very intimate, and if a person, particularly a woman, does not feel you value them, it is very difficult to enjoy the sexual experience. They would otherwise feel cheap or dirty.
    2. Show your mate the upmost respect in word and deed. When you are kind, compassionate, understanding, and patient with others outside of your household, but are mean-spirited, cold, indifferent, and impatient with your mate, it communicates that not only do you lack appreciation for them; it says that you place a higher value on those outside of your house than you do with those inside. That is the formula for the disintegration of your household. In essence, you are saying to the universe that what is out there is better than and more valuable than what you currently have. That in and of itself is a major disrespect because those in your household usually deal with your crap.
    3. Be gentle with one another and show kindness. Never allow someone to out-do you in the treatment of your mate. Likewise don’t treat strangers better than you treat your mate. No matter how annoyed with your spouse you might be, would you ever say or do to someone else, the things you say or do to your mate when you are upset or dissatisfied?
    4. Sharpen your making skills by fine-tuning your communication skills. Remember that every time you open your mouth to interact or exchange with your mate, it is a form of foreplay leading to “intercourse.” Don’t allow your words or the vibrations of them to shatter the experience or lead to misunderstandings. Give your mate the gift of the best of you.
    Sexual beings are interested in being physically satisfied, no doubt about it. Many boast of having a great set of tools and knowing precisely how to use them. Some “rs” can be very selfish though, leaving their partners wanting more. However, the more seasoned men and women understand and appreciate the importance of both being satisfied, as well as the ecstasy of a simultaneous climactic experience. Having great physical tools and the knowledge of how to use them comes a dime a dozen, and there is someone always willing to pick up the slack or fill the void.
    Yes, good sex can chill you completely out physically and it does not always take a lot of work to get that good feeling. Real making takes much more effort, and a science that can yield much greater results and rewards. Even on a bad day, making can relax the mind, soothe the soul, and make you feel like you are on top of the world. It’s a high like no other high and authentic rs understand the need and benefits of a great conversation!
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